Labor Day Reflections

I’m sitting here on Labor Day reflecting on all that has happened — this summer, this year, and really, over the last three years. In that time, I became a mom of three, made a major career change, supported close to 100 families through birth and postpartum, and, just this summer, opened my own business. Life has been nonstop lately — but for the very best reasons.

Somewhere along the way, I gained a confidence in myself that I never thought was possible. Don’t get me wrong — self-doubt still sneaks in from time to time — but that voice has grown quieter. I’ve found something that brings me joy, purpose, and pride.

Before becoming a doula, I felt lost. I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life, other than become a mom. When that dream came true, it hit me hard — in ways I wasn’t prepared for. I found myself longing for community, craving connection in a way I hadn’t before.

That’s what led me to my very first moms’ group. I was nervous and hesitant to go, but I pushed myself, and within 15 minutes of sitting in that room, listening to the other moms, something clicked. I just knew — this was where I was meant to be. Supporting families, holding space for mothers, and helping people see their worth quickly became my passion.

It took me two and a half years to take the leap and enroll in the ProDoula Postpartum and Infant Care Doula training, but once I did, I never looked back. Soon after, I trained as a labor doula, and that sealed it — I had finally found my place. Those early days were full of learning curves and shaky confidence, but I was lucky to have colleagues who believed in me and pushed me forward. I’ll forever be grateful for that encouragement.

My love for learning has only grown since then. I’ve discovered that evidence-based information is my fuel. Birth and parenthood are ever-evolving, and what was considered best practice 20 years ago isn’t necessarily what’s right today. Change can be hard, but it’s also necessary — and often, it’s for the better. That’s what excites me most about this work: there will always be more to learn, and there will always be room to grow.

Now, I find myself standing at another crossroads. I know I’m a good doula. I know this work is my calling. And now, as I step into the role of doula agency owner, I’m ready to spread my wings even further. My hope is to continue challenging myself, building community, and providing families with the very best support possible.

So here’s to new beginnings — and to the never-ending journey of learning, growing, and supporting.