Why Did I Become a Doula?

At the heart of my work as a doula is one simple truth: no one should feel alone in pregnancy, birth, or postpartum. These are life-changing moments, filled with excitement, uncertainty, and sometimes unexpected turns. My calling to become a doula grew from my own experiences of learning just how much support truly matters.

When I was pregnant with my first child, I did everything I thought would prepare me: classes, research, planning. But when preeclampsia suddenly shifted everything at 37 weeks, I realized how quickly birth plans can change. My long induction ended in a cesarean, and in the days that followed I struggled with breastfeeding, self-doubt, and the overwhelming emotions of new parenthood. The hospital team helped me through those first moments, but once I was home, I felt the weight of navigating it all on my own.

What changed everything for me was finding community. At six weeks postpartum, I went to a new moms group led by a doula. Sitting in that circle, surrounded by parents whose stories also hadn’t gone exactly to plan, I finally exhaled. I wasn’t failing; I was learning. That support carried me through — it’s what allowed me to continue breastfeeding for a full year. And in that space, I knew deep down: one day, I would become a doula.

That day came after my second miscarriage. In my grief, I felt the pull even stronger. I wanted to be for others what I had needed — someone steady, compassionate, and unwavering in their care. I signed up for doula and lactation trainings, determined to show up for families with knowledge, empathy, and advocacy.

Now, as a labor and postpartum doula, my purpose is clear: to create a safe and supportive space where parents feel heard, cared for, and empowered. Whether that means offering hands-on help, listening without judgment, or connecting you with trusted resources, my role is to walk alongside you.

Because birth and postpartum aren’t meant to be navigated alone — and you deserve to feel supported every step of the way.